Gay and Lesbian Websites


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Last Updated: 19 July 2011

Useful information sites

A Google map showing Gay & Gay-Friendly shops, businesses and venues in the inner Wellington area   Map showing Gay & Gay-Friendly Businesses and Venues

Gayline Wellington (A good general overview of Gay and Lesbian Wellington)   http://www.gayline.gen.nz/index.html


Lesbian Wellington   http://wellington.lesbian.net.nz/


Curious (a resource for young people to share feelings and experiences about sexuality and gender identity)   http://curious.org.nz/


The law and sexual orientation / Gender Indentity.
Legal issues concerning gender identity / sexual orientation, a resource from the Coalition of Community Law Services Aotearoa Inc.
http://www.communitylaw.org.nz/fileadmin/documents/About_Us_27Aug08V2.pdf


School's Out on Demand   http://www.gayline.gen.nz/interviews.htm


NZ Dating (Free contacts in all parts of New Zealand)   http://www.nzdating.com/


Gaynz.com (Gay and Lesbian news and information updated daily)  http://www.gaynz.com/


Gaytravelnet.com (Wellington Venues Page)   http://www.gaytravelnet.com/nz/WellingtonVenues.html


Gaytravelnet.com (New Zealand & International Venues, Clubs, Accommodation, Events & Travel Advice)   http://www.gaytravelnet.com/


OhMojo Gay Dating website http://ohmojo.com/


Some New Zealand sites


Wellington

Gay Wellington (Wellington Gay Welfare Group)   http://www.gaywellington.org/


Wellington Lesbians   http://wellington.lesbian.net.nz/


Rainbow Wellington - Wellington Business, Professional and Social Association   http://www.rainbowwellington.org.nz/


Tertiary Students - uniQ Victoria   http://uniq.wellington.net.nz/ (email uniq@vuwsa.org.nz)


Wellington Gay Men's Chorus   http://www.homophones-wellington.net/


Galaxies (Christian)   http://www.galaxies.org.nz/


Wellington Rainbow Gardening Group   http://www.rainbowgardeners.net/


Wellington Bisexual Women's Group   http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Wellington_Bisexual_Womens_Group/


Gay Dating in Wellington   http://wellington.gumtree.co.nz/wellington/wellington-gay_3576_1.html


Escorts (NZ-wide advertising by sex professionals and venues)   http://www.sexinnz.co.nz/wellother.htm


NZ Regions

Nelson   http://www.ts.co.nz/~kevin/


Palmerston North   http://www.malgraclubq.org.nz/


Wellington Lesbians   http://wellington.lesbian.net.nz/


Wellington   http://www.gayline.gen.nz/


AIDS information and safer sex

New Zealand AIDS Foundation   http://www.nzaf.org.nz/


Absolutely Positively Positive (Take the digital HIV test!)   http://www.app.org.nz/


Body Positive (HIV and Aids support site)   http://www.bodypositive.org.nz/


Ministry of Health Aids information   http://www.moh.govt.nz/aids


Gay and Lesbian Medical Association: Ten things gay men should discuss with their healthcare provider   http://www.glma.org/news/releases/n02071710gaythings.shtml


Books

http://www.pinkpagesnet.com/newzealand/News_and_Media/


Karl Heinrich Ulrichs (first out gay man)   http://www.angelfire.com/fl3/celebration2000/


Gay literature   http://www.gayliterature.com/


Bookstore: A Different Light   http://www.adlbooks.com/


http://www.fishpond.co.nz/Books/Fiction_Literature/Gay/


Chat sites

http://www.nzdating.com/


http://www.gaydar.com.au/


http://www.gay.com/


http://gaydar.co.uk/


Gay Culture

Happy Clapping Homos (Wellington's very own gay dating site)   http://www.happyclappinghomos.com/


http://gaynz.net.nz/


http://www.gaynz.com/


Out Takes (NZ gay/lesbian film festival)   http://www.outtakes.org.nz/


http://www.spidergay.com/

Queer Resources Directory: important material on health, youth, religion, history, politics, culture   http://www.qrd.org/qrd/


Film   http://www.aboutgaymovies.info/


An encyclopaedia of gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender & queer culture   http://www.glbtq.com/


General gay news & entertainment   http://www.365gay.com


General gay news & entertainment   http://www.advocate.com/


NZ National Library   http://webdirectory.natlib.govt.nz/dir/en/nz/community-and-social-studies/gay-lesbian-and-transgendered/


Hunkhunters (Gay adult links, some require membership/payment)   http://www.hunkhunter.com/advance.html


Lesbian Culture

Lesbian dating and social website. NZ and international. Free for first month and then reduced to limited profile status unless membership is paid. Popular with Wellington lesbos and has a chat feature and forums.
http://pinksofa.co.nz/

Lesbian and bisexual women in entertainment and the media. Magazine style website includes video and podcasts as well as articles about media featuring lesbian storylines etc. Also has lots of stories about prominent successful gay women.
http://www.afterellen.com/

“News, politics, entertainment and girl-on-girl culture”. A young, hip, sexy website with lots of gender diversity and awesome dykes. Articles and features include witty and thoughtful analysis of complex issues from lesbian safe sex to gay and lesbian politics to transguys. USA focus.
http://www.autostraddle.com/

Great local website, updates extremely regularly. Has good info about events and groups for lesbians in the greater Wellington area. Also features an extensive list of links to other great lesbian sites. Not the prettiest page, but information is RELIABLE.
http://www.wellington.lesbian.net.nz/

Wellington’s lesbian library. Library has books, magazines, tapes, CDs, DVDs, all available for lending to dykes in the Wellington area. Has searchable online catalogue, and some full-text works available though their site.
http://lilac.lesbian.net.nz/index.htm

The Armstrong & Arthur Charitable Trust for Lesbians. This trust financially supports a number of lesbian community activities in the Wellington region.
http://www.lesbiantrust.org.nz/

Article about safe sex for lesbians. Has a good amount of humour as well as sensible realistic information for the sex-savvy woman.
http://www.autostraddle.com/safe-sex-for-lesbians-45382/

Blog by a lesbian ‘dad’. Award winning US website. Discusses a lot of the issues around lesbian parenting and a few political musings.
http://www.lesbiandad.net/

NSFW. Blog of a kinky queer butch lesbian top. Much discussion of lesbian sex: including sex toys, erotic writing, butch/femme, kink, roleplays and fetishism, gender play, feminism, etc.
http://www.sugarbutch.net/

Real life stories written by lesbians from around the world. Has a wide range of topics and in-depth articles
http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/


Health & Mental Health


A Bulletin Board for gay people with Asperger's Syndrome http://gayaspie.com/


http://www.likeminds.org.nz/


http://www.mentalhealth.org.nz/


http://www.thelowdown.co.nz/


http://www.depression.org.nz/


http://www.kites.org.nz/


History

The history of Lesbianism   http://www.datehookup.com/content-the-history-of-lesbianism.htm


Queer History New Zealand   http://www.queerhistory.net.nz


Lesbian and Gay Archive of New Zealand   http://www.laganz.org.nz/index.html


Sporting

Frontrunners: International gay running network   http://wgtnfrontrunners.wordpress.com/


Other New Zealand sites

A general New Zealand news/information/entertainment site   http://www.qna.net.nz/


A directory to NZ sites of gay interest   http://www.pinkpagesnewzealand.com/


Transgender   http://www.agender.org.nz/
http://www.genderbridge.org/
http://www.transgender.co.nz

Prostitutes Collective   http://www.nzpc.org.nz/


Lesbian and Gay Legal Equality   http://homepages.paradise.net.nz/nigelchr/index.htm


International sites

Gay well-being

Coming out (Empty Closets)   http://www.emptyclosets.com/


Coming out stories   http://www.comingoutstories.com/


Accounts of gay life, including coming out, dealing with homophobia, etc   http://bibble.org/gay/stories.html


Homophobia & heterosexism   http://www.understandingprejudice.org/links/hetero.htm


Four gay therapists’ sites, including reflections on living well

http://www.joekort.com/default.htm

http://www.gaypsychotherapy.com

http://www.bodymindsoul.org/

http://www.pinkpractice.co.uk/papers.htm


Body Electric   http://www.bodyelectricoz.org/


How to do gay sex

A guide to gay male sex   http://www.sexuality.org/l/lesbigay/gaysex.html


Masturbation   http://www.jackinworld.com
http://advancedmasturbation.com/
http://male101.com/


Oral sex   http://www.libchrist.com/sexed/fellatio.html
http://www.sexuality.org/l/sex/fellatio.html


Anal sex   http://www.sexuality.org/l/incoming/aanal.html
http://www.sexuality.org/l/incoming/analrule.html


Bondage & Discipline, Sadomasochism, etc   http://www.unrealities.com/adult/ssbb/faq.htm
http://www.gmsma.org


Fisting   http://www.winternet.com/~redright/fistfact.htm
http://www.winternet.com/~redright/newredright.html


Scat   http://www.winternet.com/~redright/scatsite/


Poppers   http://www.allaboutpoppers.com/
http://www.sumeria.net/aids/poppers.html

Rectal foreign bodies   http://www.well.com/user/cynsa/newbutt.html


Sexually transmitted diseases   http://www.datehookup.com/content-the-truth-about-stds.htm


Addiction to sex   http://www.slaafws.org/ http://www.sexaa.org/


AIDS information and safer sex

http://www.thebody.com/
http://www.aids.org/
http://www.aidsinfo.nih.gov/


Special communities

Bisexuality   http://bi.org/ http://bisexual.org BIDOWNUNDER


Mature Men   http://www.apollonetwork.com/


Deaf & gay   http://www.deafqueer.org/


Disabled & gay   http://www.disabilityresources.org/GAY.html http://www.bentvoices.org/


Stuttering & gay   http://passingtwice.com/


PFLAG (Parents, families and friends of lesbians and gays)   http://www.pflag.org/


Transvestism … sexualism … genderism   http://www.hbigda.org/
http://www.geocities.com/FashionAvenue/1258/learn.html
http://www.tgfmall.com

Transsexual Hormone Therapy FAQ


Christian Religion

45 religious denominations’ positions on homosexuality   http://www.religioustolerance.org/hom_chur2.htm#epis


Gay & Christian   http://www.gaychristian.net/


Gay/Mormon   http://www.affirmation.org
http://www.gaymormon.com/


Gay/Jehovah’s Witness   http://www.gayxjw.org


Gay & Catholic   http://www.dignityusa.org/


Gay & Episcopalian   http://www.integrityusa.org/


Metropolitan Community Church   http://www.mccchurch.org/


The Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence   http://www.thesisters.org/


Gay & Mormon   http://ldsreconciliation.org/


Other spiritualities, etc

Buddhism   http://www.gaybuddhist.org/


Hinduism   http://www.galva108.org/


Paganism   http://www.witchvox.com/xgay.html


Tantra   http://www.gaytantra.org/


Radical Faeries   http://www.radfae.org/
http://www.radicalfaeries.net/Home.html


Civil unions/gay marriages

http://www.beliefnet.com/story/129/story_12984_1.html?rnd=69
http://www.secularceremonies.com/SameSex.htm
http://pages.sbcglobal.net/dlslater/CUPgm.htm
http://www.buddybuddy.com/vows.html
http://www.geocities.com/WestHollywood/1769/marriage.html#weddings
http://www.marshalltaylor.ca/weddingweb/samesex/samesexIntro.htm

History, books, culture

Gay rights   http://www.hrc.org/


Australian gay left   http://www.anu.edu.au/polsci/marx/gayleft/


Queer Theory   http://www.queertheory.com/


Youth suicide & homosexuality   http://www.youth-suicide.com/gay-bisexual/


Gay DVD, Videos and Gay toys

Gay DVD, Videos and Gay toys   http://www.radvideo.com/